It’s funny how there are times in our lives when we’re depressed, and feel that life can’t get much worse.
Then, it does. Shock and dismay follow closely behind.
I’m in one of those, poor me, life sucks periods of time, that I thought I’d left behind.
I’m always expecting that the difficult issues in my life will get easier to deal with. I forget, or block out that they can actually go in the opposite direction.
Before my Crohn’s disease became active again, about a year ago, I was thinking that life was pretty tough, and yearning for the time when my CFS would magically resolve itself, and I’d be able to live a more active life.
Crohn’s disease, which I’ve mentioned before in other articles, is one of those autoimmune diseases that doctors don’t understand very well. Your body is attacking it’s own cells, like they are invaders. In Crohn’s disease, it’s the intestinal tract that gets hit. In Rheumatoid Arthritis, it’s the joints that are affected. In Lupus, it’s multiple organs that are involved.
My Crohn’s had been in remission for nearly 30 years, before it flared earlier this year. I had gotten very used to not having to cope with major diarrhea, nausea, abdominal pain, excessive fatigue, and other seriously unpleasant symptoms.
I had nearly forgotten how bad things were when the disease was active, before I had abdominal surgery to remove a section of my gut.
Before the disease returned to my poor body, some new medications had been developed.
I’m on one called Humira, that costs ridiculous amounts of money if you aren’t insured. I use an injection pen, every two weeks, to inject the stuff into my more than ample tummy fat.
I’ve been doing this for about 3 months now.
I’ve been so tired, that going out for coffee leaves me feeling like I ran a marathon. I’ve gotten so anxious and paranoid, that I can barely stand myself. My depression level has also worsened significantly.
I had no idea, until yesterday, when I spoke to a nurse that works for Humira, that all of the symptoms I’ve been experiencing are side-effects of the medication!
I’m eating a bit more, not on the toilet 10 times daily, and no longer constantly nauseated. But at what cost?
It’s a relief to know that there is an explanation for the worsening of the fatigue, the depression, and the anxiety. But it’s also a huge bummer.
Their just aren’t many drugs out there that work for Crohn’s disease. Yes, I’ve tried a multiverse of dietary changes, and cleanses, which have generally made me feel worse. Yes, I am seeing an alternative doc, as well.
It seems that the stronger the medication, the more powerful the side-effects. I would have died as a youngster without medical intervention. At many times, on many different levels. So on the one hand I’m thankful to Allopathic doctors, and the type of medicine they practice.
At the same time, I believe that doctors need to inform their patients more fully about possible side-effects of the drugs they prescribe, and not prescribe them with such reckless abandon.
I really don’t know what to do at this point. Needing to sleep most of the day, and thinking about suicide with frequency is definitely not the way to go.
I attempted to get ahold of my GI doc yesterday, having left a message on his assistant’s voicemail. No one ever got back to me. Today they are closed. I am pretty pissed off, among other things.
I’m unmotivated, grouchy, peeved, embittered, and more.
I suppose I’ve just got to keep on hoping that life will improve for me. I know that everyone is dealing with something major, some more so than others.
I just hope this isn’t how the rest of my life is(in addition to the diseases I will most likely as I age). But it’s not always easy to be hopeful.
This is one of those times.